Lelaki macam mane yang sesuai buat suami

my friend asked me, "how long does he took to propose me?". and while i'm doing my work on the laptop, with both my hands and eyes on it, oh not to forget my brain too, i simply answered, "8 years...". jaw dropping and eyes blotting. i mean my friend. hahahaha....bila diorang laughing at me, then only i realized what do they mean by propose.

yela kan. for us muslim, propose is a term used to get married, asking in hand to be a wife officially. but actually, what do they mean by propose was bila encik husband a.k.a boyfriend masa tu tanya i untuk jadi his girlfriend. hrmm... not to forget. i was his girlfriend for a loyal-8-years-without-once-i-tengok-orang lain. hahaha.... how setia i was? pretty setia huh?

that's pretty insane. but trust me, there were a lot of dramas, and crying, and pujuk memujuk whatsoever, not to forget money, time and effort, just to keep both of us together. although i think i yang banyak berkorban (prftttt berkorban as in the one who did the talking, memorizing things, keep things happening all year around hehe..), i must say that he is pretty reliable. yela kan, kalau dia tak reliable dah macam mane dia nak jadi husband i? ha ha ha...

so actually we were friends before we decided to be together. after 6 months. and being me, i was the one who were proactive and not playing tagging when i was with him. you know tagging? malu2 kucing la etc etc. com'on girls, no such thing as in malu2 kucing. i'm preety opened with him. share experiences and all that as im the one who did the talking and he's listened.

bukanlah malu kucing sampai nak bercakap pun tak boleh. ade batas nye. tapi what's the point of jadi malu kucing tapi dalam hati ade perasaan nak bercinta dengan dia. ha dosa tau! kalau camtu suh ibu ayah cari orang kahwinkan saje. senang kan?

tapi dulu i had this idea, in which kalau i tak jadi kahwin dengan this super annoying encik husband (ha ha ha), i suh je mama and ayah carikan orang and kahwin kan. tapi syarat lepas kahwin i nak duduk London.

nampak tak dia punye sedih hati nak lari jauh dari malaysia. bawak hati la konon. hi hi hi...

bila ingat balik, termalu2 i. gaduh2 tapi anak satu dah pun. muahahahaha......

pastu nanti encik husband cakap, "sophea.....mommy tu dari dulu lagi rasa daddy tak sayang dia...sampai sophea dah ade pun dia rasa daddy tak sayang dia..."

nanti i kat belakang seat tu buat la muka kat encik husband. tapi blushing sikit la...ha ha ha.... naseb sophea tak faham lagi...kalau dia faham pun mesti dia buat muka kat daddy dia. hahaha...


kalau orang tanye i la, macam mana nak tau whether lelaki tu akan jadi suami yang baik atau tak? there is no answer for that, but all i can say is,

1. macam mane kita nak orang treat kite, means nak orang treat kite baik2 je, camtu lah kite kene treat orang lain. macam i, i really did my best to please him, so in returned i dapat ape yang i nak.
2. jangan expect menggunung dari lelaki. macam nak makan kat hotel 5 stars setiap kali dating. dapat iphone 5s setiap kali birthday etc etc. when we expect less, then tetibe dapat more than we expect, that's the beauty of it.
3. sentiasa doa kat Allah agar dipertemukan jodoh yang baik. cukup baik untuk sayang kita dan keluarga kecil kita ni dan bertanggungjawab.
4. kalau rasa pasangan kita ni cukup menyakitkan hati, tengok2 la sikit selama berkawan/berkahwin ni takkan sikit pun takde kebaikan dia. contohnye macam pagi dia keluar belikan nasi lemak untuk breakfast tu tak cukup baik lagi ke?

ingat. kita ni bukan sempurna sangat. so jangan ingat orang lain sempurna macam yang kita nak. tapi trust me, a good relationship is fill with honesty, love, and trust.