Tolak-ansur ( macam penah ada je tajuk nih)

You know one thing why Im in love with my fiance? Eceh..sebenarnye banyak je reasons dia, tapi saje nak buat entry kan. Sebab dia, sikap tolak ansur dia. Okay semua orang, boleh close window kalau tak nak muntah darah lepas baca. Hahaha..

Tolak ansur ni penting. Not only masa bercinta konon nak buat statement sayang lebih time bercinta la. No, benda ni bukan boleh dibuat-buat, tapi tak nafikan, before kahwin (time bercinta) semuanya indah la kan. Kentut pun wangi. Just for the record, we never kentot in front of each other. We just show some respect . My mum taught me that, jangan kentot depan suami, and jangan tunjuk the bad side of us. Bukan berpura-pura, cuma jaga adab.

Sama macam masa berdoa dengan Tuhan, doa macam baik-baik, belakang mengumpat juga. Macam tu la kiranya.

I hope it last. No kentut. no burping.

So anyway, back to tolak ansur. Let's say la makan. We were at the kedai mamak, nak amek tissue kononnya. So any of us boleh je pegi amik. But being me (the culprit) selalu je cakap, "b, amikkan tissue bole syg?". Then dia ckp, " ala, u la amik.." And I was like, "osom jom syg. Osom!". and dia memang selalu fall for the trap. hahaha...sebab he's the kind of guy yang sangat ego, and thinking dia boleh menang.

Which, he will win. But NOT in million years. Hahaha.

Dia mesti kalah la. Tak tau kenapa. Tapi dia mesti kalah. Dah bg batu, burung, air etc..sure kalah jugak.

Him : " ok tiga kali, tiga kali.."

Me: " ok fine. 3 kali "

*after 3 times, I win*

Him : still tak puas hati, " lagi sekali. U main tipu!"
( Dia akan ulang benda ni sampai dia dapat ulang games. Entah bila I tipu pun I tak tau. Tangan I 5 jari jugak)

Me: " ahh..okay je.."

*after 1 time, I win also*

Him : bangun pegi amik tissu.

Hahaha..comel gila. Dah la kalah, pastu tuduh2 kita main tipu. Hikhik..like everytime tau kalah. Makan ke ape ke.how can I not missing this guy?? He's my buddy. My teammate. And I love him so much.

Oh oh..ade one time tu kitorang baru balik tengok hot balloons kat putrajaya, back from a friend's wedding. Pukul 9pm baru reach home. I suruh la dia tolong angkat barang sebab ada a few stuff amik and beli, so dengan I bawak beg baju dengan kasut and everything.

Pastu dia cakap, " syg cuba bawak sendiri..". I memang sentap habis la. Dengan penatnye la. Dengan I bangun pagi buatkan breakfast tapau untuk dia.

Bila mak dah sentap, I amik semua barang-barang I dalam kereta, I peluk semua and I terus masuk rumah. Merajuk la tu.

I tak ingat dia message ke dia cakap, tapi lebih kurang macam ni , " cube u considerate sikit syg. Both of us penat, and I'm driving. I pun penat u. And you tak cakap pun "tolong".."

Sentap I kat situ. See? Sometimes we were so selfish, kita lupa yang dia pun manusia, and penat jugak. And nampak I highlight the word tolong? How important politeness and courtesy when you speak with someone.

How important bercakap sopan and everything. It makes a different, people.

He taught me, isn't it? And I learned my lesson. Next time, kalau nak pape, kena cakap tolong and cakap sopan.baru dia dengar. And men don't like to be pushed around and ordered around. No one did. Siapa-siapa pun tak suka.

Selalu pun I angkat barang sendiri. Tapi kalau dia offer nak angkat tu macam sweet nye la kau nih...tihii..

Treat our partner as our friends, as a lover, as someone yang kita hormat, I bet people pun akan hormat kita.

I'm sorry dear. I lupe kita dua penat. Next time I angkat yang ringan2 je, u angkat yang berat-berat k?hahahaha...

Ps: jangan ajak main osom lagi la.sure kalah punyer.