Jalan-Jalan ke Jepun #1

Anda nak melancong ke jepun?? nak tau tips-tips mudah jalan-jalan ke jepun? wahhh...macam iklan travel agency plak..hahaha...i'll shre with you guys tips-tips sepanjang perjalanan dari malaysia (KUL) ke jepun (NRT). some easy tips yang i rasa berguna la jugak untuk mereka-mereka yang nak melancong or business trip ke jepun for short period of time.

anyway, for those who know me, it was a prompt decision to followed encik husband on the business trip to japan. actually tak la business pun. but encik husband went to japan to represent the country (oh well...malaysia la..) on green-technology-kinda-thing-i-couldn't-be-bothered-cos-i-want-to-go-shopping.

encik husband got the memo i think 2 weeks before the departure time where's yours truly dalam masa seminggu je kena decide nak ikot ke tak. and the flight ticket was bought 3 days before departure. how cool is that!?erkk...not so cool sebab ended up baju main campak je dalam luggage.

HELLOOOOO!!!!!JEPUNNN KOTTT!!

bukan macam pergi port dickson kalau tinggal barang boleh patah balik kan. but i always do this when i go overseas. #tips1: whenever you go overseas that require your passport and visas, dont worry much on clothing sebab kita boleh beli kat sana, but keep your eyes ultimately on passport/visa/creditcard/cash. ini kalau dah sampai kat airpot narita (jepun) pastu passport cicir kat airport KLIA lepas immigration check, whoishhh....haru hidup! passport tu menunjukkan siapa kita.

so i went there by Malaysian Airlines. one of the reason i pergi pun sebab tiket murah yang amat. tak caya kan pergi jepun boleh dapat murah?? murah...return tiket rm1500. hahahaha...*evillaugh* i rasa travel agency pun tak boleh dapat harga macam tu. com'on people, MAS?rm1500?? kalau tak pergi sila makan kuaci...kikiki... macam mana dapat murah??takde specific tips pun. i tengok online, KUL-NRT rm250, NRT-KUL rm750. gedebak gedebuk tax ape jadah semua jadi rm1500. i booked the flight for one day, esok bayar pakai credit card.

oh citer pasal credit card. dulu i rasa orang yang pakai credit card ni berlagak, mengader-ngader etc etc, bila dah masuk umur 27 ni, baru la faham kegunaan credit card. selain menyelamatkan diri daripada rugi banyak kalau kena rompak dahtu baru withdraw cash rm1500 nak bayar flight tiket (ehhh...sambung citer plak...hahah), credit card sangat membantu bila kat overseas. takkan nak bawak cash rm10000 pergi jepun. jap lagi kena soal bagai kat immigration sana. tak ke masalah? #tips2: sila apply credit card before pergi overseas. kalau boleh, cari credit card yang world wide acceptable, maksudnya satu dunia boleh pakai (provided diorang ada machine accept credit card la..haha...kalau takde nak swipe kat celah mane??kiki). sekarang pun banyak bank credit card diorang boleh pakai world wide. i own satu citibank credit card, and satu lagi cimb credit card. #tips3:owh, jangan lupa activate your credit card before pergi. call je nombor belakang credit card tu. "hello miss, i would like to activate my card for international use. i'll be going to japan.." nanti orang tu tanye balik bape lama pergi and dari hari ape ke hari ape, sebab diorang akan activate penggunaan kad tu on the mention dates sahaja. so kalau ada usage before or after the mention date, kira fraud la. senang kite nak monitor.

ok so make sure weather jepun macam mana, masa i pergi tu bulan july and it was summer. dalam 23 to 34 degrees so panas la. i memang bawak baju nipis2 jer, senang. oh MAS bagi bawak 30kg, so sila sumbat.

orait. siapa yang hantu sushi, boleh la kot bertahan makan sushi kat jepun. i ni memang bukan penggemar sushi, 2 tahun sekali kot makan. hahaha....so i bawak 4 cups of maggi, 2 bungkus maggi perisa ayam satu, perisa kari (wajib!). biskut munchys etc etc dalam 3 bungkus. ini bekalan untuk seminggu, dua orang. oh dengan 2 tin tuna spread ayam brand. settle bab food. not to forget, ini kan prompt decision, i rasa kalau sebulan before fly, mau bawak sambal bilis , sambal raden etc etc. hahaha....tekak melayu + tekak jawa, memang la!

eh anak i nanges la. got to go...nanti i sambung entry lain...stay tuned tau!!!!heee...sayonara!! (eh gelabah giler....hahaha)

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Berus

i have been reaching my few last days of confinement. lebih kurang dalam 5 hari lagi. and might be leaving tapi tak boleh cakap sekarang mana tau tak jadi but i really am hoping it will come true. definitely it is a dream come true kalau jadi. ahhaha..

oh last night, my parents came to my house sebab nak bawak me and baby sophea balik KL. so later that night, encik husband dah masuk bilik dulu baring2. baby sophea was with tok mama (her nenek). so i said to encik husband, "sayang...i keluar tengok sophea dulu k, u jangan tidur...". well, even baby sophea dah ada, i still want my husband to sleep with me. ahaha....baby sophea usually sleeps in baby cot, memang kitorang nak ajar dia tidur katil dia, but lately she had been taking that spaces on our bed. well, we enjoyed jer company by the way.

so dah baring2 kat katil tu, encik husband said, "sayang...pergi gosok gigi dulu. nanti sophea ikut tak gosok gigi before sleep..". well, *rollseyes*. and im too lazy to brush, so i said to him, "sayang....gosokkan gigi i boleh??i penat la....". well, im lazy like that. hahaha...so he went to the bathroom, and me not facing the bathroom was busy merenung nasib at the other side.

suddenly he called me, "sayang....cepat la...kate nak i berus kan gigi u..". tiba2 i rasa terharu, awww so sweet husband i nak gossokkan gigi. dalam kepala dah berangan esok kalau sakit tak boleh bangun, husband sanggup gossokkan gigi i. sweet sangat...

so i cepat2 turned myself over, and to my shocked, memang sweet sangat dia nak gosokkan gigi i, he was holding that stinky dirty berus jamban!!!! amboihhhh...kuang ajaq sangat...hahahah!! sanggup tu bangun semata nak angkut berus jamban tu...well, husband i memang sweet sangat!! *telangkupmukakatbantaljeritkuat2*

he definitely suka make fun of me. according to him (which i agree to disagree), gigi i besar. gigi i besar or gigi dia yang kecik??gelabah sangat. whatever.....

so the entire night before we went into bed, we were laughing like esok bukan Monday and ada orang tu kena kerja (pastinya bukan i!). hahaha.....it was a happy night for me. i wonder what my parents think of us laughing like orang gila, during my confinement. not a naughty one, though. hehehehe...

writing here making me missing him more. oh, baby sophea tengah tidur. haritu bertukar hari, she quite meragam sikit. nangis here and there a bit, and nak orang dukung. but now, alhamdulilah she's doing great. tidur by herself and tak sempat nangis, i already know bila dia nak susu, tidur, and change diaper. i watched a lot video on why baby cry etc etc. it helps!! ;)

okla, ade masa lagi nanti i'll update. banyak nak share lagi nih....

The Day Sophea Was Born

i haven't tell you (or a record) of a story of how baby pie a.k.a baby sophea was actually born, kan? hikhik...fret not, it wasn't much of a dramatic side. i guess i am lucky (alhamdulilah!) that i get pregnant after 3 months married, i don't have serious morning sickness that, i can count of how many times did i threw up (3 or 4 times??), and delivering baby sophea was easy as 1, 2, 3. but after the delivery, during confinement was tough. tough as in i thought i can never be a good mother to baby sophea. but again, i managed to pull myself together to be strong for her.

the DAY!
i memang selalu akan bangun at around 4.am to urinate. kate pun pregnant. when you are pregnant, toilet is your ultimate best friend. so anyway, i masuk toilet, look at my panties; ok nothing unusual there - wee-wee and when i washed it down there, the water looked kinda red (red as in blood color). it was 5 days before my due date, so i guess "this is it!!". although i dont feel any pain or whatsoever, but deep inside my heart i know she's ready to see the world!

waking up daddy
i took almost 10 minutes to wake up encik husband. im quite worried whether is he ready?? and also i taknak dia like super terkejut and ruin everything...hahaha. so i took my own sweet time brushing my teeth, combed my hair, and tukar baju. then only i kejut him. and oh yes, dia memang terkejut. hahaha!! he changed into sweater and jeans like super fast and a second before we were out of our bedroom, he said,

"sayang....sempat tak i gosok gigi??".

haha...lawak gila. of course la boleh sebab i bukan sakit pon.

driving to the hospital
the weather was calm but chilled. maybe bukan sejuk mane pon but the nervousness yang i rasa makes it like sejuk gila. apparently, encik husband pon rasa. traffic was so clear. takde sebijik kereta pun, so i guess it was a smooth driving. tak sampai 30minit kitorang dah sampai hospital.

at the hospital
ada sorang abang je tengah tunggu wife dia kot. no nurses at the counter that i had to ring the bell. after registration and all, i was admitted. the nurse put on a machine to monitor the baby's heartbeat and also to check upon my contraction. according to them, there were a mild contraction but i don't feel a thing.

the doctor had to breaks my waterbag, then only i felt the contraction. i was ready in the labour room at around 6.45am. had a 30minutes contraction, and at around 8.15am baby sophea was born. my servix had already opened by 2cm when i first came in. when i was in the labour room, the doctor said i was already opened by 6cm. then it was 9 cm, and when my doctor (my specialist) came into the labour room, i was ready for a push.

the push
it was easy, but it wasn't as hurting as what people said. tapi, setiap orang ada rasa sendiri, setiap orang ada sakit sendiri. in my opinion, labour pain wasn't that bad, and we (women) boleh je atasi sakit tu. serius rasa dia macam sembelit jer. the hardest part masa nak keluarkan kepala baby tu jer. but it wasnt that bad pun.

i dont take any epidural nor taking that laughing gas. i memang taknak sebab i nak experienced sendiri sakit bersalin tu macam mana. and i did it!! and i am so proud of myself!

my husband
husband was with me all the time. in the labour room, he recited the yasin for my easy delivery. he hold my hands with every contraction i had.he helped me with every push i've done. if it wasn't him, i'll be all alone not knowing what to do. he is my strength and i thanked god for lending him to me. i need him. and i need him alot. when baby sophea was out, he azan-ed her. it was a sweet moment looking at both of them. and i started to love both of them so much from then on.

see??

no jerit2 onee....hehehehe....anyway, confinement was tough. nanti kita cerita la the experience. but now im okay and fully recovered. i baca banyak ayat ni untuk kekuatan.

"lailahillah anta subhanaka inni kuntu minnazzolimin..."

ibu strawberry

my father in law jusr came back from cameron highland. so he bought bantal strawberry for sophea and some greenies and fresh strawberrys for us. it was very toughtful of him to evenbuy fridge magnet for us.hihihi....cute sangat. abah memang generous sangat. last time he bought for us the Prestige frying pan. mahal ok.benda tu imported kot. and chocolate jangan cerita la. yang mahal2 ajer.

so anyway, i went to the kitchen, nak amek my milky pump kit and i saw encik husband standing by the fridge. dengar encik husband cakap, "strawberry?" . so i replied, "nak satuuu...". tapi i tak dengar die cakap pape so i guess dia tak dengar la i mintak strawberry tu.

so i pun masuk bilik.

sekali encik husband masuk bilik bawak sebijik jer strawberry tapi besar gile. hihi...so since encik husband nak suap, i pun bukak la mulut macam nak makan, boleh die pull away!!? i dah macam burung kehausan....haha jahat angat tau..

encik husband gelak besar. siap cakap...."ala shiann dierr..." sambil usap2 kepala i. hahaha...i rasa nak pukul die laju2..hahaha....bodokan isteri sendiri memang die suke...haihhh....-________________-

bukan ape buat entri camni. nanti satu hari dah tua, perasaan cinta tu dah kurang ke, bile baca balik terkenang2 masa muda2 dulu, kan sweet je ingat kisah cinta sendiri. yer sayang...kalau rasa2 awak dah lupe camne awak fell in love dengan saya, open this blog and read it all over again. i will do the same if tiba2 i suke org lain ke...(wahhh....layak kene tampar ni...hahaha) i will read this blog. unless lelaki tu ada kapal terbang sebijik ke...kene reconsider la...hehehe...

no la. i guess by this time encik husband already know how much i actually love him.

oh, i tanya encik husband, "nape u kahwin dengan i?" ( after one year and baby sophea dah ade..hahaha i am like that...). encik husband cakap,

"you have the quality to be a mother to my child..."

ok seriously bergetar jantung i masa tu. hahaha dramatic kan but true. so girls, maybe some guys out there same macam encik husband, looking for a wife and a mother to his child. :)

my unknown helper

hye everyone. right now im having my confinement at my MIL's house. my MIL had been taking care of sophea really good. the first night i was here, i qada' my tido dari pukul 10pm smpi pukul 7.encik husband really is a great husband sesaat pun die tak kejut i. dia cakap memang dia nak bagi i rehat secukupnya.ok terharu sangat.but i felt so tired with taking care of baby sophea sebab im not a night person, im more to a morning person. walaupun siang baby sophea tidur, still i tak boleh tidur. but anyway alhamdulilah my MIL been really helpful.

have i told you that baby sophea look exactly like her daddy. dari rupa, gaya tidur, and perangai pun exactly like her father. orang kata kalau anak rupa macam suami, masa kita pregnant tu husband sayang and cinta sangat kat kita..betul ke?if betul, i feel so blessed. *blush*

i tak tau la husband orang lain buat apa masa wife tengah confinement..well lain orang lain caranya but apa yang encik husband buat untuk i sangat2 buat i terharu. maybe husband orang lain lagi hebat cara mereka tapi my mr perfect is just perfect for me.*smile*

at 3am memang the time to change sophea's diaper. so selalu i kejut dia untuk tukar. i pun bangun jugak but untuk teman and tengok the way he do it. kan yang baby wipes tu, satu helai sekali lap. -_- rugi tau. hehehe...but tak payah la kita nak bebel2 dah la orang tu bangun pagi nak tuka diapers, kita nak bising2 cara dia bersihkan anak dia.hikhik..

then, setiap kali i nak pump susu, die mesti mengendeng2 kat i. kadang bukan ape pun, dia amek hp main game sebelah i. hahaha....but having him kat sebelah buat i rasa tenang je..rasa happy jer..and thus the production of milk pun banyak untuk sophea.hehe...masa mula2 dulu konon nak pump kiri kanan sekali but it was very hard for me to hold dua sekali so encik husband pun tolong. tapi funny sangat and we all tergelak all the way. rasa pelik and malu pun ada. hahaha...tapi pasangkan pump, amekan botol, storage sampai la ke sterile bottle semua encik husband buat.

and every night dia akan buatkan susu suam dengan kurma untuk tambah susu i. selalu dia akan tanya i nak ke susu and selalu i buat muka taknak. hahaha....muak ok. dah la tak letak gula, apakah sangat.hehehe tapi kadang2 dia buatkan jer so terpaksa la i minum. he's taking a good care of me and baby sophea.

setiap hari i tanya kat dia,

"sayang...do you love me?" sambil kiss dahi dia.

"sayang la.....sayang sangat..." . tapi tangan dengan mata laju je main game. hahaha...tak kisah la, janji die jawab. i asked him the same quEstion every day without fail. hehehe...i love him like that much.

talking about berpantang, selalu orang kata suami taknak dekat2 dengan isteri sebab bau param pilis etc. tapi suami kita nie mengendeng jer. peluk la ape la. tapi dia kate busuk jugak hahahaha....tapi sayang isteri busuk pun busuk lah kan. hehehe...ade potensi baby sophea nak dapat adik dengan kadar segera...hahaha...heypp heypp nooo...not yet.

kalau kitorang pindah randah memang encik husband jer pack kan baju...loading and unloading stuff. and i percaya untuk dia buat benda tu. die kan particular.

sepanjang confinement ni, especially bila encik husband pergi kerja after 1 week cuti dengan i, memang nangis jela i. hikhik...cengeng! entah la, i rasa terharu sangat dengan whatever things yang encik husband buat untuk i. maybe for some of you benda ni macam "eh hello, sume org buat kott ." but i just wanna say how thankful i am for having him in my life. i know i wont find someone so kind and so lovingmacam dia. his everything for me and cinta nya i kat dia more than anything else.

i pray that Allah akan murahkan rezeki dia and bagi kesihatan yang baik untuk dia. baby sophea is so lucky to have her daddy. i know he will take a good care of you baby sophea. and thank u sayang for always be there for me. u know how cengeng and soft hearted i ni sampai semua pun nak mengadu dengan u i rasa mesti u pon boring but u always there mendengar setiap kata-kata i. thanks sayang. thanks sebab sediakan everything as comfortable as u can.

her daddy

baby sophea tengah tidur. so i want to curi a bit of my time nak upate blog. sometimes a girl need her time off. hikhik...takdelah time off sangat sebab baby sophea ade je nie ha depan i.

ape nak citer yer?oh, hari ni hari ke 20 sophea. and o her 20th day dia balik rumah daddy dia. yup, we are back to our home but not for good. my parents are going to bangkok so takde sape kat rumah and i need to take care of myself, so balik la rumah kitorang. lagipun dekat sikit ofis enck husband dengan rumah. klau rumah parents i jauh encik husband nak pergi kerja. costly in terms of fuel jugak.

hrmm...really encik husband is a great husband and a great daddy. my baby sophea memang lucky sangat to have him as her father. encik husband dont talk much but he did show us that he loves and care for us through his action. talking about kemas beg, set up place, keep document, semua serah encik husband. i didnt do single thing pun during this confinement except taking care of myself and baby sophea.

encik husband will go out as early as 6.30am sebab office jauh and comes back at 7.30 or 8pm.malam encik husband akan buatkan i susu panas and prepared 3 biji kurma untuk i, tips nak banyakkan susu badan.tiap malam without miss dia akan buatkan i susu panas and kurma tu tak kira la die penat ke or balik lambat.

i selalu nangis sebab i rasa i couldn't get a great husband like him. i tak tau la maybe sebab sifat i yang suka praise him, bukan praise him sebab die suami i, tapi sebab i rasa encik husband memang a great guy, and kalau i diberi pilihan untuk pilih orang lain yang perfect as in kaya, hensem, pandai, ada everything in the entire world, still i will choose my husband, sebab i really love him. cinta kan tak boleh dibeli, ia datang sendiri...kan?

sekarang ni encik husband tengah dokong baby sophea.die dah bising2 tu. got to go.byeee!

a moment

having baby as in our new family member really is a new experience for us. im still adjusting my life especially my time for our new baby sophea. but luckily for me, she is one of a good baby.  other than crying for being hungry or need to change diapers, other than that she's all good. alhamdulilah dari during pregnancy with no morning sickness, during delivery pon senang, and ms confinement pon tak banyak kerenah. so i pray that she will be good sampai la besar,sampai bile2.

husband had been a very great companion for me. whenever i feel low hw always there for me, tak putus2 bagi semangat kat i. really. im not good at telling and sharing problems or secret with someone else, tapi when i did tell and share problems or secret with u, meaning i really love u thus i trust you so much.

during my one day admitted to the ward, malam tu bermula cabaran for both of us being parents. malam tu sophea nangis quite a lot. die bukan like nangis memanjang, die macam bunyik2 sikit. i guess die lapar kot. as in the first few days susu i tak banyak. dia haus kot. masa tu i sedih sangat mengenangkan anak i tak cukup makan. but i really dont have any idea what to do.

encik husband janji nak bergilir jaga but he was so tired that malam tu sophea nangis pun die tak bangun dah. being a mom is great. kita memang ada alert button yang whenever we are asleep anak bunyik sikit pun boleh terjaga. hehehe...

at first husband tak pandai sangat dukung sophea..bedung ok la sikit. all he did were kemaskan barang2 i..make sure i dalam keadaan comfortable..that i dont feel tired and not stress out. everything turned out fine. selalu jugak i nangis bila fikir what will i do kalau encik husband takde. sedih campur terharu. i doa setiap masa yang Allah akan protect dia and murahkan rezeki dia.

hrmm...sebenarnye banyak benda nak cerita. but i realy dont have time. tapi i need to write down. untuk sophea baca dan tahu ape yang mommy and daddy dah buat and berkorban untuk dia. nanti la. nila i betul2 free baru i buat entry khas. hihihi.

quickies!!

Hello hello hello!
It's been such a long time since my last update. Anyhoo, i can't make a long entry anymore. Why? Continye reading okay. I'm gonna put the updates by point forms.

1. I had been giving birth to a beautiful adorable baby girl on 31st may 2013 , at a very early morning. It was fast and easy delivery alhamdulilah. So baby pie is a baby girl and by the name Sophea. Nama pendek..nama panjang hehehe.

2. I'm having my confinement at my mother's house here in kl. Somehow i really miss my own house. Pregnancy was wayy easy than delivery.and confinement. I dont mind the restricted food..but restricted movement? Adoii.

3. Husband said im having baby blues. I guess i am.im tired and restless. But im working hard to stay positive and enjoy what Allah gave me.

4. Now husband and Sophea are my strengh. Husband has been so damn supportive throughout delivery and confinement. I cried everyday because i felt so thankful for having him in my life. He seems to be strong inside and out, and by knowing that had given me so much energy and strength.

So that is my quick update.

Of Being Young Father

Rasa lega sangat weekend hari tu dah siap gosok baju encik husband. bukan ape, dah alang-alang nak dekat due date ni, takot jugak baby pie semangat nak tengok dunia ni cepat, siam plak encik husband nak gosok baju sendiri kan. ala, sebenarnye boleh je die gosok sendiri, die pun cakap die akan gosok sendiri, tapi itu la kan, i myself yang manja kan dia sangat, berlemak sikit la beliau tu. hihhihi...

hari tu encik husband offer, "sayang nak iron baju dalam bilik tak?sejuk sikit..". sejuk la sikit sebab ada aircond kan. ok jer bertungkus lumus la encik husband, bawak iron, iron board, dengan spray baju masuk dalam bilik. sambil-sambil tu dia teman kat katil, borak-borak and all. sekali agaknya dia dok menjeling i yang tengah iron his clothes, then die cakap, "sayang tu, nampak ke iron tu?".

i was like, "ha?ape yang tak nampak?". rupenye perot i dah sampai kat baju yang nak di iron tu. hahaha... kuang asam sangat! i pun mula la bukak mukadimah, "i saje je iron dalam bilik ni, so that you nampak susah payah nye wife you yang tengah sarat mengandung pun boleh lagi iron baju u. bukan satu dua...nak dekat sepuluh helai ni..."

"yela sayang.....hahahaha!!". kesian. baru romantik2 nak teman wife iron, kena sebutir. hikhik...but he knows me better. die tau i takkan buat something tu kalau i tak suke, or tak larat. tapi encik husband cakap, "nak tunggu sayang tu tak larat, sampai dah beranak pun larat je lg..."..selagi mampu kita buat la sendiri. nanti kalau asyik depend dengan orang lain je, orang pandang rendah dengan kita. =)

kalau nak ikot kan, i have like 15 days to go for my EDD. tapi selalu first baby orang cakap keluar awal, eh? ke lambat? i dont know, but i am going to take my maternity leave starting next week, which will be 2 weeks earlier. you know why? bukan i nak sangat cuti (prfttt...!!), tapi encik husband keep pestering me untuk cuti.

bayangkan lah tiap pagi kul 6.30am camtu kejut dia suh bangun, dia akan lilitkan tangan dia all over my body, pastu bagi nasihat-nasihat yang tak patut di pagi hari macam, "sayang cuti eh hari ni?boleh bangun lambat.." followed by a cheeky kiss on my cheek. or dia akan cakap, "sayang cuti la...penat dah keje kan...". sambil buat-buat sambung tidur. or kalau die bengang sebab i macam tak layan die, he will say " sayang tu setia sangat dengan company tu, ape die bagi pun...". hahahaha....

adoi la....ade je pengaruh tak baik die.but i felt so wanted by him. macam die tu susah nak lepaskan i pagi-pagi gi kerja, or knowing that actually he loves to spend the extra minute every morning on the bed doing nothing except having me sleeping next to him. ada sekali tu, that both of us dah bangun awal, tapi tu la, main peluk-peluk camtu, sudahnye bangun at 7.15am. hahahaha...padahal nak kene keluar rumah kul 7.30am. hikhik...but it was a fun moment, pastu dua2 pun gelak all the way to office.

i just hope that the feelings (of being wanted) between us will grow each and every day. he's everything i have and my life depends much on him. siapa yang dah kahwin tu tau la rasa dia. tak sama macam masa bercinta. kalau masa bercinta tu, asyik la nak berkepit, lepas kahwin ni, bukan je rasa nak berkepit, rasa taknak gi kerja pun dah ada dah. hahahaha.....which is very very bad!!jangan tanamkan perasaan macam tu dalam jiwa kita, buruk padahnye.hahaha...

cuma ada sekali tu, i rasa terharu sangat. sebab i tanya dia, "b, are you excited that we actually have our own baby, yang lagi a few days je ada dengan kita..." over dinner hari tu.

then he said, " masa mula-mula i tau you pregnant tu, i tak rasa pape. after a few months pun i biasa je. tapi now i excited sangat, and sekarang i dah nampak perut u, lagi la excited.." sambil dia kunyah-kunyah ikan goreng.

memang excited sangat. bangun tidur die akan usap perot i, then he wished "good morning [insert baby pie's name]...dah bangun ke sayang?". and on the way to the train station, sambil usap-usap perot i,die akan bagi nasihat kat baby, " [insert baby pie's name] jangan nakal-nakal tau..teman mommy pergi kerja tau...". it's kinda weird at first, but i guess a normal father would do that, isn't it?

finally, i just can't wait for baby pie to arrived, sebab i tak sabar nak bagitau baby pie that she has a great father (and awesome too!) who loves her so much and would do anything for her. he will cherish her and take a very good care of her. insyaAllah. cuma mommy agak risau, your daddy boleh ke tak bangun every 2 hour teman mommy bagi u makan. hikhik...boleh kan daddy? =)

Cleaning Day

Semalam Sunday, the whole day we stayed at home. there's so much to do, like cleaning and all (kemas kan memang takkan habis). pagi tu supposely pergi jogging, tapi encik husband agaklah berat nak bangun, so duk rumah je la. pagi tu bangun, buatkan encik husband jemput-jemput bawang ikan bilis, and i had mee hoon soup for breakfast.

lepas makan, sapu and mop rumah. dulu i selalu buat sendiri jer, but now since dah sarat, encik husband tolong. i did my sapu and mop, nanti dia akan guna microfiber mop untuk clean up the left-dust. kan kadang-kadang kalau kite mop ade habuk-habuk yang tertinggal. i personally like to use mop yang perah pakai tangan eventhough encik husband dah siap belikan baldi yang siap ada tempat nak perah mop tu. entahlah, i traditional like that...ahahaha...perah pakai tangan lebih puas!hihihihihi...

ha ni la microfiber mop yang encik husband pakai. mahal jugak dalam RM35++ kot, mahallah compare dengan mop tradisional yang nenek-nenek selalu pakai tu. beli dari first pindah rumah. almost 1 year simpan dalam store barulah digunakan. itupun sebab encik husband yang pakai. kalau tunggu puan isteri beliau, memang dalam store je la. hahahaha...

then petang tu konon nak pergi carefour la cari fruits, nak pergi minum ice blended la kat cyber, last-last penat mengemas ke ape, tidur bergolek-golek sampai ke petang. than malam tu konon nak keluar dating, last-last sebab ada MU match, order domino's je.

dahla domino's encik husband boleh lupe BBQ chicken wing i. memang luluh hati i. merajuk la sekejap. sedih gila siap menangis tak dapat chicken wing. hahaha...perangai betul!tapi memang la, sejak pregnant ni, kalau i request something (especially food), kalau tak dapat, memang menangis terus la. walaupun setakat air limau ais cenggitu. hahaha....

ntah pukul berapa habis match MU tu, i memang dah tidur dulu kat sofa depan TV. tau-tau encik husband kejut suh masuk bilik. bukak kan aircond, siapkan bantal untuk kaki i, bukakkan comforter, let me sleep, tutup lampu, and a goodnight kiss.

and i slept soundly like a baby, sampai pagi tadi dia cakap, dia almost fell from the bed, sebab i dah tolak dia sampai hujung katil. hahahaha.....was it me??ahahahha.....siannye la suami saya..tapi dia cakap tak sampai hati nak kejut.

fine fine. taknak kejut merasa la yer tido kat border katil. hikhik...mesti kiut jer. mesti mcm gelabah nak jatuh. hikhik...

Tips Membeli Stroller

setiap orang ada criteria sendiri when buying strollers. i do have my own set of criteria when buying my first baby stroller. and i wanted to share with anyone who possibly looking for a stroller, especially untuk first baby, and still tak tau what to do, how to choose etc etc.

[My Criteria]
1. Folding type
-my main priority
-kene tau jenis kereta kita. means if you have small car/compact car/town car, adalah disarankan untuk membeli stroller yang boleh folding jadi sekecil-kecil umat. hahaha... so it's either boleh fit in dalam bonet kereta or seat belakang, and still got extra spaces untuk letak barang lain.
-kalau setakat pergi shopping oklah kan, tapi kalau balik kampung kan susah? so stroller yang tidak memakan space adalah pilihan utama.
- unless you have a big car with a big bonnet, you should skip this part...hehehe!
-suggestion beli umbrella folding untuk compact car...like mine!

2. Weight
-since stroller is meant to be push, kalau berat pun takpelah kirenye, sebab tu dia jatuh to my second priority.
- dapat cari stroller yang folding kecik and ringan adalah paling bagus.
- berat yang i cari adalah dalam 4kgs to 6kgs. tu pun dah berat sangat. kalau ringan boleh masuk handbag kan bagus...hahaha...

3. Duration of usage
- kalau boleh cari stroller yang boleh guna dari newborn sampai umur 5 ke 6 tahun would be nice.
- tapi jarang la ade stroller yang offer newborn sampai a few years. basically dari 6months and above.
- sebab kalau dari new born mesti boleh fully recline sampai 180 degrees (penting!)

4. Brand
- penting sebab contohnya a certain brand yang dah lama establish dalam market, kita boleh tau the quality is good. sebab tu dia boleh bertahan dalam market.
- penting sebab certain brand offers worldwide warranty dan bukan setakat warranty kedai jer.
- brand jugak since dia dah establish lama dalam market, safety dia mestilah sangat bagus, means kalau la ade stroller dia yang tergolek dan mencederakan bayi, mestilah dah kene saman and out of the market. hihihhihi...

5. Pricing
- at the end of the day, bila semua criterias above were met, pricing jugaklah yang memainkan peranan.
- everyone knows when you pay for a stroller yang sangat sangat bagus, harga dia mestilah mahal gilos.
- so untuk orang yang not earn like a CEO (yup!it's me!), ukurlah baju di badan sendiri kak. jangan menyusahkan diri dan keluarga yer.

***

being me, whatever i choose must be perfectly perfect (for me) and i would have been satisfied with my buying. knowing that we have the power of purchasing, and the power to choose (over internet especially). encik husband will ALWAYS have the final say, almost on everything. he leaves me with the research, surveying etc etc, and if it's his turn to pay, he WILL have the final say. tapi yela kan, benda yang 'kita' nak tu mestilah kite cerita yang pros je (and cons tu sikit2 je...hahahaha), pengaruh lebih sikit.

and yes, we had already received our first baby stroller after all the hardwork (kumpul duit tiap bulan) dan penantian.

 

 MacLaren Quest 2012 in Medieval Blue/Scarlet

Finally, me and encik husband decided to buy MacLaren Quest 2012 after we went through all sorts of brand for baby strollers. setelah mempertimbangkan apa yang sepatutnya, criteria yang i mentioned above ade lah sedikit sebanyak terkena.

1. Folding

- MacLaren Quest adalah umbrella folding, maka dia takkan amek space yang banyak.

- kekurangan dia bila folding, dia tak boleh lipat dua setelah umbrella folding macam stroller biasa, jadi dia agak panjang untuk bonnet town car. tapi still dia amek half of the bonnet instead of all (beg balik kampung nak letak mane kann..)

- husband pun setuju..so yeay!!

2. Weight

- MacLaren Quest hanya seberat 6kgs including hood and shopping basket.

- a bit tad heavy compare dengan Combi WC yang 4.2kg saje. Combi was our first choice tapi sebab dia tak boleh umbrella folding dan harga mahal (melebihi bajet kitorang).

- lepas folding and suruh encik husband angkut kat bahu, he said yes. so yeayy!!

3. Duration of Usage

- yang ni paling penting (bila nak memenangi hati suami...hehehe).

- i cakap walaupun harga mahal, tapi MacLaren Quest boleh pakai dari newborn sampai la budak umur 4 5 tahun, which is approx. 25kgs. so kire la bape lame boleh pakai. i've read somewhere kat blog, anak dia dah umur 6 tahun pun still tolak pakai MacLaren yang dia mula-mula beli (walaupun ade sign of wear and tear macam gabus kat handle etc etc)

- sambil cakap sambil tunjuk bukti kat encik husband. so yeay!!

4. Brand

- yang ni i tak payah nak elaborate panjang-panjang kot.

-telah berada didalam market dari 1967 and founded by Owen Finlay MacLaren.

- despite ade certain years yang product dia not good and they called them back, still i read a good reviews from the users of their strollers.

- warranty ada dua i- Basic MacLaren Warranty ii- Sovereign Lifetime Warranty. boleh baca details kat web diorang.

5. Pricing

- MacLaren Quest adalah sangat cheap di UK and cost only 75pound, which is equivalent to RM300 saja.

- Kat malaysia, the price is from RM1399.

- since we got a good bargain, eh takdelah good bargain sangat but the the kedai ada buat promotion Mother's day (and this one i have to thanked encik husband sebab dia yang stumbled upon the advert).

- so kitorang dapat less than RM1399.

- so yeay!!!

lepas dah order, i saw this one colour yang i suka sangat sampai i pujuk encik husband untuk tukar kan kaler dia.

ni haa...

MacLaren Quest 2011 in Black/ Scarlet

tapi i rasa ni model lama kot. looking at the tyre and handle. tapi kalau dapat pun takpe. cantik sangat kaler dia. but whatever it is, im so happy sebab encik husband telah menunaikan cita-cita i. semoga daddy baby pie dimurahkan rezeki , dengan kesihatan yang baik, dan bahagia disamping keluarga tercinta. we love you so much daddy and thank you so much sebab jaga kitorang sebaik-baiknya.

Combine la hadiah birthday dengan wedding anniversary...

penantian suatu penyeksaan..
but it was all worth the wait. akhirnya sampai juga beg idaman (idaman la sgt..) i setelah dari birthday i order and that was like a few months ago.i even dah terforgotten (perghh bahasa kau) pasal beg tu.

24th Feb was my birthday. sebelum tu dah hint-hint encik husband nak hadiah (gelabah gila nak hadiah). encik husband tanya jugak, "sayang nak hadiah apa untuk birthday?". and selalunya i jawab main-main, but this time around, i dengan gigih mengaku nak handbag.

husband cakap, "handbag yang berlambak tu siapa nak pakai?". hahaha...soalan membunuh tu. i just jawab dengan muka paling comel (mungkin annoying to encik husband) yang i need certain bag for certain occasions. hahaha...i rasa semua girls pun guna alasan yang sama kan.

husband tanya, "what kind of bag do you want?". laju je i bukak internet and tunjuk gambarajah seperti di atas. dia tengok sambil lewa and then said, "hrm..ok.". ha!?ha!? ok? does he just said "ok??". ahahahaha.....terus order tanpa rasa bersalah. husband transferred duit and it was all set. so masa tu, tunggu jela yang i mampu buat.

the reason i bought this type of handbag because:
1. pengaruh by my sister in law. die banyak sangat handbag coach tapi satu pun die tak bagi i. hahaha...tapi dia mampu nak beli bermacam-macam sedangkan i?kena mintak husband belikan la...-___-
2. i suka simple design and not crowded and fancy. this signature tote ade yang leather/plain (cantik angat) tapi mahal sangat almost RM1K sebab leather kan, jadi say buhbye je la.
3. tak banyak compartment means boleh sumbat the whole thing. kalau nak compartments jugak, beli beg organizer je nanti.
4. not affordable but once in a while boleh la.


maybe this bag dah out of season, or ramai yang dah pakai ke ape, but i love it so much!! (blame my SIL...-______-) so yeay!!

thank you encik husband for the combined gift!i can't asked for more (although you dah belanje i dinner kat TGIF). semoga Allah murahkan rezeki you. i love you so much sayang...more than words can described. i akan sentiasa doakan you, every second of the day. happy anniversary (again) sayang yang ke setahun. and i doa semoga jodoh kita kekal sehingga ke syurga dan di kurniakan anak yang (ramai...heee), soleh dan solehah. love you!!

Review: Mom and Baby Expo 10 - 12 May 2013

ha, nak jugak buat review. i mean, i can't believe that actually, there will be one perfect day in my entire life, that i'll be going to mom and baby expo..hahaha. i mean, i do see myself going to wedding expo and stuff (you know as i love weddings and i want to have the perfect wedding ever hence the going-to-expo), but mom and baby expo?hikhik...i truly can't believed myself either.

so before going to any place, you should have your own objective/mission/reason on "why i have to go [insert place's name]?". same goes to myself. hikhik....you know, i had been doing my research up and down the internet (heh...macam lah busy sangat) on kedai mane yang jual barang murah, loads of choices, if i want to go for a brand/specific brand kedai mana bagus, online shop mana bagus etc etc. so after a few months doing research, i only managed to go to the expo (with encik husband) since i can't/don't want to carry heavy things, and only recently encik husband ada disisi, and also he was the one yang eagerly nak pergi expo, so yup yup yup...!

Objective
Our objective is to find:
1. Stroller
2. Baby Car Seat
3. Sterilizer and Warmer
4. Cooler Bag
5. Playpen
6. Baby carrier/ baby wearing

Review
[Stroller]
1. Not as much as what i had expected. There were a few booth (yang besar) yang solely selling their own brand of stroller such as Combi, Bumbleride, Quinny, Sweetheart, GB, Graco, Aprica, Fischer Price. itu yang booth besar. kalau booth kecik ada MacLaren, Joie, Safe n Sound, Hauck, Nuna, Mydear.
2. We had our eye on Aprica's stroller and even got a good bargain from the promoter. and baby pie's daddy also berkenan with Bumbleride Flite. but yes, we didn't buy the stroller from the expo, sebab online lagi murah kot.

 Aprica , RM1600++ (at expo approx. RM899)

Bumbleride Flite, RM1300++ (at expo approx. RM899)

[Baby Car Seat]
1. Not as much as strollers. there were a few booths selling car seat from the same brand of strollers including Fischer Price, Graco, MyDear, Sweetheart, Combi, Ferrari, Sparco, Maxi Cosi etc.
2. Range of price from RM199 to RM1000++ depending on the brand. but selalunya kitorang round kat situ, car seat yang elok were from RM299 onwards.
3. We didn't buy from the expo either.

[Sterilizer and Warmer]
1. memang i (mestilah i, encik husband by that time wouldn't have idea what is sterilizer and warmer pun...hahaha) cari sterilizer yang jual combo/package set. senang and murah.
2. brands yang i stumble upon were Avent, Little Bean, Autumnz, Mydear, and Jingle Jungle. paling murah Jingle Jungle (RM149.90) ,MyDear (RM290), Avent (RM250). tapi MyDear dapat 3 benda, can't remember what is the thing.
3. i bought Sterilizer and Warmer from LittleBean, RM150. paling murah i nampak online pun RM159.

[cooler bag]
1. i'm looking for something yang stylish and not so motherly look. but i found none. so mane yang jumpe grab jela.
2. to be safe and at that time i dah macam penat jalan-jalan, i just bought this cooler bag, RM54.90 from fabulous mom. harga sama, but this one without postage la.
3. ada bag, 6-pc jingle jungle storage bottles, and 3-pc reusable ice-packs.

[Playpen]
1. we were aiming the playpen from SweetCherry but mind you ladies, none of sweetcherry items to be found kat expo tu. tak tau kenapa.hahaha...
2. we saw a few booths selling playpen and baby cots such as mydear, tobby, esprit, and graco.
3. so kitorang beli playpen tu online jela jugak.

[baby carrier/baby wearing]
1. baby carrier banyak sangat jual kat expo ni from Ergo,i-angle, Mothercare, etc etc to name a few.
2. we are looking for Chicco baby carrier. tapi entah la tak nampak ke ape.so tak beli jugak.

[Dos and Donts]
1. Try to come as early as possible. kitorang sampai around 9.00am. parking bays masih banyak. we had our own sweet time having breakfast and all. 9.30am naek kat tempat expo bapak ramai dah sampai.hahahah....siap queued lagi nak masuk. me and encik husband??berdatingan di atas kerusi sambil cek our checklist supaya tidak membazir.
2. do your own research especially on pricing and combo package. lebih banyak murah online dari kat expo but tak dinafikan it is easy to find everything under one roof.
3. orang sangat ramai. kalau rasa diri dah sarat and tak mampu nak jalan lame, disarankan jangan datang. susah nak jumpe kerusi pun.
4. kalau boleh bawak CASH. sebab credit card will take a longer time to process the bills. i used only once for amount more than RM150. so dah boleh cut down time nak pergi hall lain. (hall ade 3 but interconnected)


so that's it. =) have fun in the next expo-ing!

Nak mintak maaf nie...

we had our monthly programme with the family (big family including nenek and uncles/aunties) to have our Yassin's Night. basically kalau ada family gathering (actually tiap minggu pun ada je perjumpaan macam makan-makan ke, celebration ke, kenduri-kendara ke), kitorang buat sekali sembahyang berjemaah ke, makan-makan, and celebration sekali macam birthdays and everything.

but semalam punya gathering inclusive:
1. birthday my sister in law
2. doa selamat for the arrival of my baby and sister in law punyer baby.
3. doa selamat untuk my sister and cousins kat all over the world yang sedang sibuk exam.
4. tahlil untuk ahli keluarga yang lain

so nenek buat for me pulut kuning and rendang daging paru limpa super sedap dengan bubur hitam putih (orang jawa selalu buat untuk doa selamat) untuk i menghadapi kelahiran. my uncle doakan bubur itu (jangan isu khurafat plak sebab doa kat bubur..hahaha) and i dengan sister in law makan dengan penuh doa supaya baby pie kitorang sihat dan proses kelahiran berjalan lancar.

menu for last night: KFC, nasi lemak bungkus, pulut kuning, rendang daging, roti john (we bought!), agar-agar merah, agar-agar santan laici, kek secret recipe, homemade red velvet cake, karipap, air sirap laici, sambal telur.

semua super sedap! =)

but there are things that i really touched by............ =)

encik husband,
sorry if i tak faham you balik kerja penat and all i want from you is your attention and undivided love. walaupun u penat, i kept on talking and kacau u as if a little girl wants the attention from the father. we had solat jemaah together and baca yassin sesama. it was a nice feeling wasn't it, although you kat depan and i kat belakang.=)

sorry i tak sempat nak amikkan you food and drinks and you went to the table all by yourself as my kaki hurt me the most nowadays. when i said "my foot hurts..." i really mean it and not being a cry-baby. and i don't even want you to rasa the sakit sebab it really hurts...especially time solat. i hope lepas baby pie keluar, it doesn't hurt me as much as right now. =)

sorry kalau selama i pregnant ni, i tak layan you as perfect as before. sebab kadang-kadang i nak bawak diri i pun tak larat, especially in the morning when i had to wake up to go to work. kalau ikot rasa hati, nak je i sambung tido and dengan you2 sekali i tarik tido, but i know kalau i buat macam tu, memang you takkan bangun...hehe...we don't want that negative attitude inherited by baby pie kan? 

oh, sorry kalau the house is not as clean as what you expected it to be, especially my bathroom. thank you sayang for spending the time and energy to clean up mine (and yours too!).

thank you semalam bukakkan jam i and all the wedding rings as i memang dah flat sangat2 that if you tak bukakkan pun, i would rather sleep than spending 30 seconds of my time bukak jam...thanks lapkan muka i dengan baby wipes (i bet kalau keluar jerawat lepas ni tau dah sebab ape)...i rasa semua yang you buat, tapi i can't even open my eyes.

sorry tak tunggu sayang nak tidur semalam, sebab the last thing i remembered was you entering the bathroom, and that's it! -_________-

sorry jugak tak sempat potongkan you mangga yang you nak tu, but i try to cut the mangga for you malam ni k?we spend the night watching movie kat living hall k as seminggu ni hari-hari kita keluar malam and balik rumah untuk tidur jer. sorry kalau you rasa i lack of kat mane-mane but everyday i tried so hard and berdoa yang i akan selalu menjadi isteri yang terbaik untuk u...=)

ok sayang...can't wait to meet you tonight...kite nak makan ape malam ni?=) i'll cook!

TGIF Alamanda, Putrajaya

Semalam we celebrated our first wedding anniversary at TGIF Alamanda Putrajaya. after i arrived at the Putrajaya Sentral, encik husband picked me and we went home for a quick changed and by 8.00pm, we already arrived at Alamanda. tak ramai orang, since yesterday's rain was quite heavy, so it was either they stuck in the jam, or they just too tired to eat outside. but lucky for us, kan? =) sebab TGIF tak penuh. there were only a few customers outside TGIF, about 2 tables, and inside, they were only 3 tables occupied.

before pergi tu, encik husband insisted on going straight to TGIF, means tak payah tukar baju la. OMG, dia tak tau ke, hello, nak pergi date kot, apakah memakai baju kerja, dah la baju kurung i ada ropol-ropol, ada ladybird dengan butterfly. euww sangat! hahahaha.....kalau pakai pergi kerja takpe la jugak, ni nak pergi date kan?hehehe...date dengan bf plak tu! ;)

encik husband taknak tukar baju kerja dia, he wanted to but too lazy to naek atas. but i don't mind at all, sebab he looked sexy and tempted pakai baju kerja.....*grrrr* so within 10 minutes i dah siap mandi, siap gosok baju, siap make-up lagi!seeeee....how fast i can be! tapi encik husband patut lebih prihatin as his wife in not in her best condition, helooooo....kite ibu nandong la! -_______-

anyway, sampai je, we made the order. i choose to eat Grilled Lamb ( around RM30++) and 7Up for drinks (RM10++). encik husband makan ape eh, burger...macam stacked burger siap ada onion ring, beef patty dengan bacon (RM30++) and pineapple juice fro drinks (RM11++).

food arrived a bit late (or perhaps kitorang kebulur sangat kot) hahaha....sampai je memang terus makan. and the food were AWESOME!!! sedap, licin, and memang noticeable that we were damn hungry and the food sangat sedap! maybe different outlet lain la kot rasanya, mestilah dah chef nyer lain tangan kan.

the last time we ate was at TGIF The Curve. i makan Sizzling Chicken with Cheese ke ape tu, dah la masin, masin as in tertumpah garam kot rasa dia. so memang i choose not to eat there. then hari tu makan kat TGIF Wangsa Walk Mall, memang super nice!i makan Tennese Burger ke ape macam tu. memang sedap!!

but personal satisfaction, i lagi suka makan Chilli's!hahaha....a bit cheaper (kot?) and the food are nice, and also selection of food kat Chilli's lebih lagi rasanya sebab ada nachos..haha...

anyway, semalam we had a great food and i had the BEST company ever, encik husband! we spent the night talking, naughtying, and playing around TGIF. surely the place was comforting enough, but having someone you love, and that you want to spend the rest of your life with ada sama dengan you, is just the greatest feeling ever!

Thank you encik husband, for bringing me to a great dine-in place, i had a great dinner, and most of all, i have you! love you so much....and baby pie say "thanks for the Grilled Lamb daddy...!!" hehehe...

Our First Wedding Anniversary!

Alhamdulilah. Alhamdulilah. Alhamdulilah.

okay. where shall i start? *excited* hikhik...

kita dah setahun kahwin!!heee...omg, cepat gila dah setahun. rasa macam baru je kahwin. baru je pindah rumah, kemas-kemas rumah and settling down. oh, patutlah rasa macam baru kahwin, sepanjang 12 bulan dah kahwin, encik husband pergi kursus 6-7 bulan, so the balance bulan i stayed alone (with my parents) without encik husband. no wonder i feel macam baru je kahwin. hikhik..

Before We Were Married
have known him for such a long time and best yet to discovered after kahwin that dia tak sama dengan masa couple dulu. erm..shall i say, masa bercinta dulu dia banyak ignored kehendak i, it seems that dia tak pernah faham i. bergaduh adalah salah satu 'keperluan' kitorang masa bercinta dulu. hahaha...for example, gaduh malam hari isnin, pagi selasa dah baik, petang selasa gaduh balik. and the cycles goes on and on and on. hahaha....but no matter what, i still love him. walau 'benci' macam mana pun i dengan perangai dia dulu, i tetap suka kat dia. suka as in, "i like him!".

Getting Married
untuk ingat balik decision untuk kahwin,bila kahwin, kat mane nak kahwin, was tough. as usual, kita perempuan menunggu dan terus menunggu until the guy say yes. bukan tak pernah bagitau encik husband suruh kahwin dengan i as we have been together for almost 8 years (masa tu) but encik husband belum ready (err im not sure financially or mentally). but after the decision was made, Alhamdulilah semua process nak kahwin tu berjalan lancar and sangat mudah. the best part was when kitorang dua bertungkus lumus dan berusaha berdua untuk menjayakan majlis perkahwinan kitorang. redah jem and jumpa vendor to get the best price/offer. rasa masa tu sifat kerjasama tu ada. terus terasa dalam hati macam, "okay, this guy was good. sure boleh menjayakan institusi kekeluargaan i...". terus.....-__________-

The Day We Were Married
hari dinikahkan was the best ever. sebab before that kitorang janji taknak jumpa for almost 2 months, konon jaga seri pengantin *tangan di bahu*. so lama gila tak jumpa. and then, masa hari nikah tu memang dup dap dup dap la. gila kau. and he looked damn handsome on the nikah day. dah la pakai baju melayu putih. cair i secair-cairnya....*nakal mode*. dengan sekali lafaz, i became his wife. masa tu memang tak dapat la nak digambarkan betapa bersyukurnya semua berjalan lancar and to be his wife (and being chosen to be his wife) i think was the greatest gift ever. i wont find someone good and kind enough like him to be my husband. i cried, because now he is my priority, my key to heaven, and i shall devoted my life to him. everything i do is for him. besar tangungjawab tu. =)

The Married Life
ha ni la yang paling seronoknya!! sebab we can do anything and everything tanpa halangan mak ayah. hahaha...we can sleep together, we can stay up/out sampai pukul2 berapa pun tanpa ada yang menghalang. spending time with him is just awesome. kat rumah , dalam kereta, kat mana-mana jer, dengan ada dia si encik husband, everything seems great and enjoyable.

kalau gaduh pun tak boleh lama-lama, sebab rumah kitorang tu sekangkang kera jer. so nak taknak mesti terserempak jugak, dah nak lari ke mana. mostly kalau gaduh pun, kitorang diam je buat kerja masing-masing. but i suka curi tengok dia. mana tahan oi. bf kita kot dalam rumah hehehe. rasa nak peluk nak mintak maaf je. tapi muka awak tu garang sangat, so nanti-nanti lah mintak maaf yer.

and lucky me, encik husband adalah jenis ringan tulang, dan pembersih. as in pembersih-nampak-meja-berabuk-pergi-dapur-amik-kain-lap-meja. i pun tak buat camtu k. i tengok-jeling-oh habuk-okay. hahaha....tapi kadang-kadang dia buat sepah jugak, lelaki dah nama nya. ada sekali tu, barang-barang ikea sampai, die guna wine rack tu jadi tempat simpan barang dia kat store. so banyaklah beg kecik-kecik barang dia dari ofis lama nak pindah ke ofis baru.

so banyak benda nak kena sorted out macam botol-botol, papers, pens....alang-alang dia tengah kemas tu, i nak jugak kemas bilik depan tu, bilik tu kitorang nak buat guest room, memang kosong jela since perabot belom beli (wahh perabot!makcik sangat), so i passed kat die barang2 tu. afterall itu pun barang2 dia kan, better die yang kemas.

tak lama lepas tu, dalam 40minits camtu i heard him saying, "Bbbbbbb!!!i pening dah nak kemas barang2 ni!!!". dia duduk kat lantai, dengan barang-barang sekeliling dia, bersepah. hahahaha......kesiannn...tu la, bila terlampau detail, terlampau nak grouping each item, kan dah buang masa dan tenaga. hahahaha...i biarkan je since i tau, die boleh je kemas, cuma perlu masa. and i helped him a bit sorting and putting things back to where it belongs.

haihhh...ni baru husband sorang je. belom ada anak lagi ni. penat jugak nak melayan kerenah sorang2...hihihih...

anyway, pagi tu bangun with a warm wishes, as we woke up pretty late. puan isteri macam biasalah, bangun jer masuk dapur. i cooked nasi ayam untuk lunch hari tu. we thought of going to a nice place for dinner, but both of us refuses. sebab semua nak balik asing untuk mengundi.

maybe we can have our little celebration later kan sayang?

so Sayang, happy first anniversary to us. i can't believe that we actually 'made' it for one year!hehehe...just to let you know, i am so so grateful that Allah grant me such a perfect husband, whom i adore so much. thank you for loving me all these years, and thank you sebab always stand by me, even if i'm wrong. i might not be the perfect wife you actually dream of, but i can be the best wife you ever had!i promised to love you and care for you in any good and worst condition, i promised to stand by your side every day and every second of your life, i promised to be your better wife through out the years, and i promised to be a good wife and mother to your kids, InsyaAllah.

and apart from that, deep down in my heart, i would like to apologize for any wrong doings, and hurtful feelings i made you. please forgive me for every bad things i did or said to you.

and lastly, promise me (and our kids) that you will always love us no matter what, that you will stay truthful and honest for as long as we live, and promise to be a good husband and a good daddy for us, and promise to take care of us ( even when mommy's gone) for as long as you live.

i love you dear husband,so much. i'll see you in Jannah once upon a time. InsyaAllah.

ps: it's either Sushi King or Chilli's or TGIF k...

Tuhan tolongggg....

i don't know what did i do to be gifted such a perfect husband. i know people do compare their husbands with others (i did that too....errrr....guilty!) but in the end, i got to know more than enough, that my husband is perfect in so many ways, that sekalipun i takkan tukar dia dengan sesiapa pun jika di beri pilihan oleh Tuhan. =)

he helped me around the house a lot, that i tak rasa "normal" guys will do. bukanlah amik kesempatan, but knowing that when i am are tired and doing household chores by myself, but in the other part of the house, encik husband pun tengah sama-sama bersihkan rumah. such a great feelings. again, kerja yang dia buat yang lelaki boleh buat, alih-alihkan furniture, angkat carpets, vacuum, lap-lap. and i buat la kerja detailing yang perempuan buat sangat hebat, membasuh, menyapu, mengemop, memasak, membasuh pinggan, menyusun barang etc etc.

memang banyak. and cuba bayangkan kalau encik husband tak tolong langsung a bit?boleh pengsan kan? lagipun encik husband memang super pembersih, so i taknak la i look dirty and lazy in front of him. malu kot.

anyway, kan last post i cakap pasal barang2 Ikea yang kitorang beli dah sampai and dah siap pasang kat rumah? so semalam baru first time i balik rumah tengok barang-barang. best sangat-sangat and our home looked like a perfect home to raise our small family. walaupun barang-barang tak banyak, murah, but still i feel with all the money, time and energy spent/invested to the house, insyaAllah semoga dapat segalanya diberkati Allah.

semalam encik husband pasang kan cover Klippan, alihkan furniture, and both of us sama-sama susun story book and magazines in Billy bookcase. whoahh...dah ade bookcase semangat sikit nak buat reading. cuma encik husband cakap, "banyak lah furniture i nak kena lap...". hahaha...so cute!

and semalam, he kept on saying, "kaki sakit...". we walked a lot semalam. pagi ada paintball game, panjat bukit. then we went to OU, jalan-jalan g shopping mall. he drove around KL to home, malam kemas rumah, definitely kaki akan sakit. i lagi la sakit sebab bawak baby pie ke hulur ke hilir, except driving. but kita perempuan kuat sikit kan, lelaki ni memang manja.

so i amik minyak panas and wanted to urut his feet. he refuses. dia cakap dia yang patut urut kaki i instead of me urut-ing kaki dia. but i'm okay. urut in couple of minutes, and i tengok dia pun dah ngantuk-ngantuk, by 11pm kitorang tidur.

i was having so much fun spending my Labour day dengan dia. kate pun dia bf kita kan, definitely spending the hours with him will be great and tau-tau je dah malam. time flies so fast nowadays, but still i look forward living, fighting, and exploring things with him. with baby pie coming the way, life couldn't be better. =)

Honeypot Wax Boutique @ One Utama

ahh, finally after such a long time, i decided to have my waxing session. this is due to i-will-get-into-labour in one month time, so having my 'down' there clean and not like reserved jungle is a must. hahahaha... so anyway, i didn't get paid to make this review, but i feel i need to share some information with my sisters as i know, we want to find a place that is cheap, convenient, hygienic,professional, and nice. kan?

so the last time i went for a Brazillian wax was at Glitters, Bangsar Village. itupun sebab my sister who is a regular customer there, and dah biasa with the people and the process, and also the pricing. so i just followed her. compared to Honeypot, Braz-wax at Glitters were more gentle and the therapist knows which part that need to be care the most, as there are some part that have soft and thin skin. so kat situ memang "ouucchhh!!" a bit.

but since my sister is not here in Malaysia (if not i dah pergi dengan dia), and i don't think encik husband would like to go through all the massive madness jam roads to bangsar, so i searched for a nearer place and convenient enough for us to go there.

so, yup. Honeypot Wax Boutique! read a few reviews and im ready to go!

i went there on the 1st of May, so it was a public holiday. bapak jammed all over! appointment was set at 4.00pm, i only managed to do my session at 5.00pm. nasib tak ramai sangat orang yang ada appointment on that day, but still i had to wait for 10-15minits. and luckily they don't cancel my appointment.

the first thing to do when we arrived is to fill some form of your basic details, just some general question, such as do you have any allergic with some solutions, or do you have any skin problems etc etc. then, they will confirm with you which type of services you choose.

next your beautician/therapist will assist you to the room. they will leave you for 5 minutes for you to take off your bottom-wear, leaving you half-naked. don't feel shy, because it is just a normal procedure. then when they want to enter the room they will ask you, "mem, are you ready?". just say "yes...". ahahaha...itu pun nak bagitau. hikhik...

then the process begin!! just follow the instructions yang therapist tu bagi, such as, bend your leg, cross your leg. alright-THE PAIN? well, as my pain threshold is quite high, i don't feel that enough pain to make me go screaming and crying along the process. hahaha...but hurt enough to make me go sweating. hihihihi...and the most hurting was when i waxed off the center of the private part, which have the softest and the thinnest skin.

but yang lain-lain; OKAY!

level of pain: 3/10- except for the center part- 6/10...hihihi...

the process went on for 30-45minutes, depending on the condition of your hair.

so anyway, i went for Hollywood Wax, and it cost me RM108. well, i was satisfied with the process, and everything!fully recommended and definitely i will go back for their services.

Honey Pot One Utama
S119b, 2nd Floor,
1 Utama Shopping Centre

03-7729 5598

Honey Pot Bangsar Shopping Centre
Lot S123, 2nd Floor,
Bangsar Shopping Centre

03 2092 5598

At 35 weeks of pregnancy

hari ni barang Ikea sampai! unfortunately sekarang ni Ikea's delivery man tengah hantar and assemble barang-barang tu kat rumah, and i am here, in the office, marking exam papers, and not knowing apa jadi kat rumah. nasib rumah tak bersepah, malu la orang datang (walaupun orang delivery jer), but it is people's perception about a person.

takkan la kalau rumah orang tu bersih, dia pengotor kan? sama jugak kalau rumah dia kotor, dia pembersih, kan? but the first statement orang tak kisah sangat, but statement no 2 kalau kita mention kat orang itu (rumah dia kotor), kita di panggil judgemental, right? right. dalam hidup ni, memang MANUSIA suka point out keburukan orang, instead of kebaikan orang.

tapi i try, (and im trying very hard) not to be this kind of people, this type. sangat tak baik. dalam Islam kan di ajar agar kita tak buka keaiban orang dan sentiasa berprasangka baik terhadap seseorang. biar Allah je yang balas kejahatan orang, bukan kita manusia. senang saja kalau berhadapan orang macam ni; jangan layan.

eh?jauh menyimpang ni.haha...

anyway malam ni tidur rumah mama. atok is at our house (atok is living with his wife (his wife after nenek passed away)), so mama suh kitorang balik as atok has been asking around where the hell is his cucus...hehehe...ye tok, kitorang balik ni. ni pun sebab nak main paintball esok. and esok juga i ada waxing session kat OU!wehooo...bestnyer!time to pamper myself. kalau ada duit lebih kita buat la sekali pedi and mani.

at 35weeks++, malam i hardly get a good sleep. mengah tiba-tiba datang. kalau baring, serious rasa ada tembikai susu dalam perut (kenapa nak kena tembikai susu???hahaha...). encik husband cakap tidur tak pelok. mak aihh...perot besar camni nak pelok apenye...peluk bantal terasa amat selesa sekali. like last night, i tidur dengan 3 bantal sekali harung. encik husband memang tidur jenis lying flat, bantal satu nipis, i memang jenis tidur bantal at least 2 keping. but now, i letak bantal tiga, lepas tu dirikan, so kira macam support la kat belakang.

bukan sebab i sakit pinggang ke apa, but sebab i dah tak boleh baring or mengiring. but im okay as long as baby okay.

and morning around 6am until 1pm, baby pie is really moving and kicking around. i rasa sebab space dah limited, so dia rimas. rimas la macam daddy dia, panas sikit tak boleh, orang ramai sikit tak boleh. but i wont allowed her to be cerewet like that. susah la.

anyway,there are a few items need to be add on for baby pie:
1. stroller
2. playpen / portable cot
3. baby carrier / baby wearing
4. set berpantang (eh ni bukan untuk baby pie, ni untuk mommy..hehehe...)
5. sterilizer and bottle warmer

and i've been asking and merengek kat encik husband suruh dia kumpul duit sebab i nak pergi Celebrity Fitness balik (gosh, i really missed my gym time...you know, looking at all the hot guys can boost up my confidence..err...to be like them la...hihihihhhi). so every month dia kena put aside dalam rm160. i ugut kalau dia tak kasi i pergi CF, i want to eat and ended up looking like a whale.hahaha....

orait. nak sambung buat kerja. hari ni encik husband amek kat office sebab i dapat hadiah untuk baby pie, and ada a few stuff i beli, and also hampers for tomorrow's paintball game, sponsored by me...hihihi!!

Shopping Trip to Ikea

ahad tu macam biasa la pengsan bangun dah nak dekat pukul 9. bangun pukul 6am, solat dulu, pastu golek-golek, borak-borak, pukul 9am baru berangkat dari katil. macam biasa la, sebab ada orang lapar kan. hahaha.....haihh, tak boleh nak romantik langsung, makan jer ingat. hikhik...nasiblah sayang, kalau tak sayang, i sambung jer tidur balik...hihihi...

sebenarnya kitorang penat masa tu sebab sabtu pagi tu, both of us go for a jog kat taman area rumah. balik tu, buat spring cleaning plak dengan encik husband. habis kipas, rail tingkap, tembok rumah apa semua dia lap and bersihkan. tahap pengumpulan habuk dah macam satu stick cotton candy, cuma dia warna hitam je la. -______- maybe encik husband concern sebab baby pie is coming the way, so nanti dah ada baby, susah plak nak kemas beriya2 kan. encik husband buat yang berat-berat macam vacuum and all. kita sapu and mop je la macam biasa.

then petang tu the whole day kitorang buat kerja rumah. and that night i cooked ayam masak kicap. tak ingat la tidur pukul berapa. so ahad tu, since the whole day kat rumah, petang encik husband ajak jalan-jalan. nak tengok iron man 3, but it was full house, so i cakap jom pergi Ikea. and he agreed right away. boring la tu duk rumah.

tapi i cakap kat dia, "pergi ikea mesti buy something, jangan pergi bodoh-bodoh jer. buang masa and tenaga.."

hahaha.....amik kau. RM1000 lebih habis untuk barang-barang rumah. -________-

ni adalah dua benda yang both of us paling excited dapat beli. hahahaha.... Klippan dengan bath tub baby. klippan ni kitorang dah aim sejak kahwin lagi, sejak first shopping barang-barang rumah. masa beli sofa Kivik tu kitorang nak beli Klippan ni sekali. sebab kat rumah parents i, memang dah lama guna Klippan ni, and rest assured, dia memang tahan sangat2! tapi masa kitorang beli Kivik tu, Klippan habis stok. the next week tu kitorang pergi lagi, pun takde stok. bayangkan betapa bagusnya Klippan ni.

so this time around, alhamdulilah ada jugak Klippan tu, terus kitorang amik. tak banyak stok dekat gudang dia, ada 5 6 je lagi. encik husband la suka sangat Klippan ni, i cakap kalau takde pun, tetamu boleh duduk bawah, tapi dia cakap kita kena utamakan tetamu. fine. he's the one paying, apa hak kita bersuara. wahh merajuk gitu!hahaha...

then dia pergi carik wardrobe untuk baby pie kitorang. lama gila kot dia kat sana. but i can see him. i kat 23, dia dekat 26 (kawasan gudang). i had to stayed at where i was sebab pegang dua troli, takut orang tarik troli Klippan tu limited stok kan, means orang teramik. i rasa ada la 30minit dia pergi amik wardrobe tu, Aneboda. ni pun sama, masa nak beli dengan Kivik tu, pun dah habis stok. so after 30mins tu dia datang kat i, rupanya Aneboda tu tinggal satu je! OMG sangat.....dia cakap itu pun dah ada orang sandarkan kat besi, bukan dalam susunan stok, and ada a few yang cari Aneboda tu. semua pun carik Aneboda. i have one back at my parents house, so memang sweet and cute sangat untuk letak baju-baju baby pie nanti.

memang rezeki kitorang and baby pie as semua yang kitorang planned untuk beli semua ada, eventhough with limited stok. sebab nak bayar delivery charge RM75, so takkan nak buat dua trips?lainla u all ada kereta/lori besar, so boleh hantar for free kan.=)

untuk baby pie, wardrobe Aneboda, baby bath tub, dengan laundry basket je. daddy punya Klippan set, folding chair, billy bookcase, wine rack (definitely not for wine storage...hahaha). untuk mommy?takde pun. mula-mula nak beli insulator bag, untuk letak susu baby pie nanti, tapi since next week nak jalan-jalan gi expo, so letak la balik beg tu. anytime boleh beli kan. =)

yang tak jadi beli Baby Cot je, sebab back at my parents house, we already bought wooden baby cot, from Ikea jugak, so i rasa untuk rumah kitorang, kitorang nak beli yang portable, senang kalau encik husband keluar ke apa, i boleh tengok baby pie kat living hall. so kitorang nak beli playpen. so lepas balik Ikea, singgah Ikano (IPC). dekat Mom's Care ada clearance sale, Esprit punya playpen rm299 je, tapi takde bassinet and changing station. ada kat situ Graco. tapi taknak jugak sebab mahal and design tak cantik pun. so nak amek murah ingat nak beli sweetcherry, rm249 jer. ada bassinet and changing station sekali. valued for money.

balik from Ikea, kitorang singgah Jalan 222 kat PJ. local mesti tau la. nasi lemak sedap, sup kambing sedap...haihhh....sampai rumah around 12am jugak la. so pagi ni kitorang bangun lambat dalam 7am. tapi still left the house by 7.30am. heeee...cuma tak boleh bermesra alam sebelum pergi kerja as usual. heee....

Baby Stroller

yer yer. i have been going back and forth and up and down the internet (wahh macam banyak sangat tugas dia kan..?) to do my research on finding the best, yet the ultimate baby stroller for my baby. dah nak masuk ke bulan 8 pregnancy baru la terhegeh-hegeh nak cari. excuse la sikit sebab en husband baru balik kursus, so susah i nak buat decision unless it's my money. dah duit i, ape-ape pun ok. tapi nama pun dah kahwin, kena la sefahaman, maka decision pun kena la buat sama-sama.

masa awal-awal pregnant dulu, memang i dah fokus dan yakin untuk amik stroller from MacLaren. entah kenapa. maybe sebab sturdy frame dia. banyak review cakap bagus. harga mahal and well-known brand, takkan la teruk kan? mestilah akan ada wear-and-tear nanti, but it takes awhile before that to happen. ada baca review, dia cakap dah 6tahun dia pakai elok je, cuma bahagian handle sebab made of foam, so dia pecah-pecah la. harga dalam RM700-RM2000.

then, tiba-tiba jatuh cinta sangat dengan Stokke. memang tersangat jatuh cinta dengan Stokke. hari-hari pun tengok je, sambil meleleh air liur.sebab tahu takkan mampu beli. eh mampu, mampu sangat sebenarnya, pastu kau jilat-jilat la tayar Stokke tu bagi kenyang. hahaha...harga dalam RM2500-RM5000.

then, ada plak Bugaboo, 4moms origami, quinny, britax, mothercare ,mamas and papas etc etc. selain tu, phil and teds pun penah la caught up my attention for awhile, especially yang baby jogger. ada yang macam affordable sikit macam silver cross dengan halford. pun tengok jela.

then husband cakap nak guna SCR. malaysian brand. i kalau malaysian brand ni laju je. semangat patriotik katanye. ahahaha...harga pun not bad. dalam RM200-RM900. tapi bila i pergi tengok kat JJ hari tu (sebab niat datang nak beli/add on barang baby), ringan tapi....takut tak sturdy frame dia. lagipun linen dalam dia nampak mudah koyak, takde padding. tapi ni personal view, and masa tu i tak tengok pun satu-satu model SCR ni. en husband suka sebab roda dia besar. what's with the roda besar, sayang? -_-

then haritu i pergi alamanda dengan mama, masuk satu kedai baby ni, jumpe COMBI. omaigodd ringan gila, brand from Japan. tapi model yang i tengok tu takboleh rear and forward facing. salah satu kriteria utama encik husband. tapi betul jugak. kot kang anak melorot keluar stroller kang, mane nak nampak. dulu konon nak nampak stylo and everything, tapi sekarang i go for practicality. so jangan susahkan diri dengan roda besar, nak lipat2 , pastu nak sumbat lagi dalam kereta kecik kitorang tu. dah, jangan mengada-ngada. unless daddy nak beli kereta besar, kita cari yang roda besar okay?haahhaha....

anyway, in the end (belum beli pun lagi), i decided i nak stay dengan MacLaren or COMBI sahaja.(wahh yakin...kite tgk apa en husband beli nanti). sebab utama:
1. ringan
2. tahan lama- tak pernah dengar review yang dia cepat rosak
3. boleh muat bonet kereta kitorang.
4. boleh pakai sampai anak umur 4-5tahun.-long term investment.
5. mahal tapi kumpul-kumpul sikit boleh masuk lingkungan affordable.

comparing MacLaren dengan COMBI, COMBI lagi mahal. tapi nanti nak pergi baby expo, memang nak tengok la. orang kata baby expo or maternity expo, boleh dapat 30%to 50% discount. so, may ni nak pergi terjah. =)

gambar:*google

sila cuci mata puas-puas dan buat survey untuk price range. goodluck!!

Hargai Aku (bukan tajuk lagu Armada la..ahaha)

en husband bengang.

sebab everytime we planned to do something, it won't (easily) happen. ahaha...contohnya, every saturday or sunday morning, we planned to have our morning walk/jog at the taman near our house. but yeah, we take things for granted. akhirnya, bergolek dan bergelimpangan atas katil sampai la pukul 9am. bangun pun sebab lapar. nanti ada je bunyik-bunyik cengkerik mintak makan. ahahaha..... sebab isnin sampai jumaat memang we make used of our entire body and energy. wake up at usual time 5.30am-6.00am, kemas masak, pergi kerja and hit the bed by 12am. so memang tidur 5-6 jam tu is enough, but sometimes we need that 'extra' sleep time, lagi-lagi kita tau takde komitmen on that day kan?lagi la sedap.

but i had kept reminding en husband to have our usual walk/jog together. dulu before pregnant memang every night and every week kitorang go for a run, tapi now bila i dah pregnant, en husband pun lebih kurang naik je perut dia. so nak tak nak, weekend ni (esok) mesti go for a walk. lagipun i tinggal sebulan je lagi. so lagi banyak jalan/exercise, mintak juga dipermudahkan bersalin. =)

pagi tadi, i cooked nasi goreng cina sebab semalam memang sengaja masak lebih, nak tapau bawak pergi office. so pagi-pagi dah menumbuk cili. kul 6.15am camtu en husband dah bangun. selalunya tunggu i kejut breakfast baru nak bangun. dia cakap, "i bangun awal sebab i terdengar u tumbuk2 kat dapur. i cakap teman sayangla kat depan...terharu i wife i pagi-pagi dah masak...".

hrmm...i rasa selagi dalam hati i penuh rasa cinta dan sayang i untuk en husband, and i rasa en husband have the same feelings for me, selagi tu la i mampu je nak buat segala untuk dia. sebab bila kita sayang and cinta kat orang tu, kita sanggup buat apa jer utnuk dia, sanggup bersusah-payah untuk dia. at least, that is how i feel. =) sebab i tau, kalau i masak-dia akan makan. dia akan makan sebab dia kata sedap. so kita pun rasa happy, and kita rasa dihargai and disayangi. kadang-kadang time kitorang makan tu, he give me a lot of kisses sepanjang kitorang makan tu. kadang-kadang mulut penuh food pun dia kiss jugak sambil cakap "thanks masakkan untuk kita..." and i always replied, "thank you daddy sebab belikan food untuk kitorang...".

kadang-kadang orang tak perasaan, en husband pun mungkin tak tau, the simple wishes and effort yang dia buat untuk i, macam say thanks and everything, really make my day. really helps me to improve myself more than everyday. that i always happy to do something for him. penat memang penat, sebab kita guna tenaga. but kalau in the end, kita yang happy? the tiredness doesn't even being remembered.

i selalu cakap, "bole la sayang nak manja-manja, tak sampai setahun kahwin kan...ahahaha". but i dont think it is going to go away in a few days. hikhik.....orait....have fun people!

Being Strong

Semalam lepas balik kerja, ingat nak terus shoot pergi HUKM, my sister in law yang baru 2 bulan pregnant had very severe allergic due to her pregnancy, alahan teruk la tu. memang teruk sangat sampai kena MC 2 bulan hokay. i iz jeles. but not really, i rasa bersyukur sangat yang im not like that, susah nak buat kerja. you know, i have devoted my life for encik husband, dia la satu-satunya kunci yang i ada untuk bawak i ke syurge (ecewah...) so whatever he wants in his life, i kena bagi. isteri mithali katenye. tapi kalau i lah kena alahan teruk macam SIL i, kesian and susah sangat.

my SIL tak boleh langsung dekat dengan abang i (but i dont blame her, my brother is a smoker), lagi tak boleh bau masak-masak, and she is not that strong, so tak boleh kemas-kemas, sabun basuh baju pun dia tak boleh, dah macam mana tu?where else ME, jangan kate mengemas, mengangkat groceries balik dari supermarket pun laju jer. and i rasa my walking pace still laju (mind u...im a pregnant lady with a 8-month naught baby girl inside...hikhik), cuma i senang je rasa penat. especially tang kaki. ehehehe....

i think orang yang paling happy adalah encik husband. habis dah semua siap terhidang, ape lagi yang dia nak?but he was a very good husband and companion to me. kadang-kadang i tengah rehat-rehat kejap kat bilik, i dengar dia tengah asahkan pisau i. terharu sangat. dia taknak wife dia spend a lot of time cutting fruits and vege, and need to use more energy for doing that. toilet jangan cakap la. i rasa sepanjang i kahwin dengan i, sekali je kot i basuh my own toilet, yang lain dia la yang basuh kan.

selalu i buat macam ni,

Me: "psttt....bb, sini kejap (kat dapur). ada benda i nak bisik...hikhik..."
Him: *datang dekat, hulur telinga* "apa dia sayang...."
Me: "toilet kita kotor.....heee..."
Him: *gelak2* "yela......jap lagi kita basuhkan k...."

tell me. siapa tak sejuk hati husband macam tu. at least he could understand that im pregnant, easily tired, and paling penting, tak boleh tunduk2 kan. but haritu masa i stay kat rumah mama, the toilet was quite dirty, dirty sebab toilet i fully white, so berabuk skit memang nampak, so i dengan pakai sabun basuh baju yang super licin, merangkak, basuh toilet. i masa tu cuak gila jugak, buat nyer masa i nak bangun ter-slipp ke apa, tapi i doa je dalam hati supaya dipermudahkan segala.

alhamdulilah okay.

before pergi HUKM, we stopped at sungai besi, makan kejap. i ordered nasi goreng cili padi, and he ordered nasi goreng ayam. licin makan. lapar kot. dah la masa tu dah pukul 9pm, kena hujan plak tu lepas balik kerja. balik rumah tukar baju, mandi solat sume. memang kebulur.

lepas HUKM, sampai rumah dalam pukul 11pm camtu. balik tukar baju, gosok gigi then baru tido. hit the sack early jugak sebab selalu pukul 12am++ baru nak tidur, tapi sebab penat ke ape, kitorang tidur awal. pagi tadi bangun pun ngantuk-ngantuk lagi.

bangun lambat kul 6am, selalu 5.30am dah bangun, buat breakfast hotdog bun dengan hot tea untuk en husband, tapau satu untuk i, breakfast cocoa crunch, jemur kain, mandi solat semua, by 7.30 dah on the road to office.

anyway, malam ni ingat nak masak cencaru sumbat, makan dengan nasi panas. nak masak nasi lebih, so that esok pagi boleh buat nasi goreng. =)

Maksud nama; Girang.

Apart from daily update because i love to talk and say unnecessary things (but no one to entertain me), i think (and hope) that i can read all of these entries whenever i feel i wanted to, or  when they should be a time, where i need to read it, the most.

so what's up yesterday?

both encik husband and myself went to our work routine. basically he will send me before he off to work and selalu dalam kereta we will talk (prftt...) almost about anything. he always said this,

"sayang....orang lain bangun pagi-pagi muram je, senyap jer....u pagi-pagi dah riang. girang-macam nama u...hahaha". 

haihh....encik husband kalau pagi-pagi tak kutuk i memang tak sah.

semalam dekat train station, he arrived early and waited for me. kalau dia tunggu tu, tak lain tak bukan mesti nak kenakan i. nanti dia menyorok la mana-mana and i macam orang bodoh la cari-cari dia. perangai sangat...-____________- but being the awesome me; i saw him from a far and quickly took out my hp and BBMed him,

"tak payah nak menyorok sayang....i dah nampak you..."

he replied, "demmit.."

hahahaha......ingat i senang untuk diperbodohkan? then when i came near him, dia lari. DIA LARI OK?i pergi kanan, dia pergi kiri, i pergi kiri dia pergi kanan. ni apa ni? and i laughed like mad, you know, for having him as my husband...-_________- i dont know why i married him in the first place. but luckily he bought some tuna and chocolate bread and orange twister. i memang dah haus but not that hungry. dap dap dap.... =)

and last night, arrived around 7.15pm, quickly i cooked for our dinner. simple dish; sweet sour fish and i used ikan bawal hitam, bendi and sambal belacan, and air sirap. and yes, encik husband makan bertambah, and i always love when he do that. but he has put some weight (psstt...especially around the waist..hikhik), so he asked me not to cook sedap-sedap and banyak-banyak. fine.

when he off to his daily night jog, i took the chance untuk gosok baju and seluar and everything. dapatlah 3 baju and 4 seluar. enough sampai monday next week. then bila dia balik dari jog semalam, i stopped ironing, and joined him for his 'cool down' session, under the air conditioner...-___________- sambil tu borak-borak. he massaged my foot, lama jugak sebab kitorang borak pun bukan main lama. hahaha....bila tersedar nak dekat pukul 11, dua-dua pun kelam kabut mandi, then solat jemaah.

tau-tau masa encik husband baca quran, i was asleep like a baby next to him. tak tau pukul berapa masa tu, i rasa pukul 12.00am kot. im easily got into sleep now a days, i think because of the pregnancy, cepat sikit penat dia. but i am totally having fun spending time (and energy of course) dengan encik husband.

he's my best friend, and spending time with him is just as awesome as he is.... ;)

Husband extra concerned...heee...

hi guys!

it's been awhile kan?sorry sorry because i was so busy doing stuff (as usual...prffttt!). bukan apa pun, it is just encik husband was already home, FOR GOOD!!yeay........ no more sleepless nights, no more go-check-up sendiri, no more i-want-to-eat-this-but-too-lazy-to-drive, and finally, no more no-one-to-pick-a-fight-with..hahahaha!!!even on the day he came home, which was on sunday afternoon, we had a fight. (i think when our baby has grown up and read this, she will eventually understands why daddy and mommy fights a lot..hehehe). simply because, we can't bear to be apart for such a long time.

anyway, bila encik husband balik, i'm back to my old (compulsary) routine. house chores. and oh boy, i don't have that energy anymore, the kind of energy i had in the beginning of marriage life, because i'm pregnant now -______________-. not that i'm complaining, it is just i move a bit slower, and my foot hurt so much these days. macam semalam, i fell asleep on the couch (while waiting for encik husband mandi). then he came to me and kejut me, asking to have a isya' prayer together (jemaah). i geleng2 kepala, too tired to perform prayer. but he insisted. fine.

lepas semayang i terus boom tidur!but my foot damn hurt..so i asked encik husband to urut my kaki. omg....memang sedap gila..urut dengan kasih sayang plak tu....hikhik...lama jugak dia urut sampai tertidur-tidur i. pastu tidur nyenyak the whole night.

pagi tadi, masa kat ofis, encik husband BBM i. he said,

"semalam masa i urut kaki u,i teringat u kena jalan jauh, berdiri dalam train, jalan kaki pergi ofis, pastu tukar train, panas, hujan....kita sedih...:( "

pastu i yang baca ni pun terus mencurah-curah air mata. ain't a pregnant lady is full with emotions?hikhik...sedih and terharu because he knows that, what's happening to me, and he realized that and pointed them out. kadang-kadang i pun tak fikir sangat, tapi dah dia cakap, i pun jadi sedih. tak sangka encik husband concerned sangat macam tu. and i tak rasa pun dia akan tahu benda-benda tu.

but he did.

and i love him for that. i know (and pray) that he will be a good daddy to auni, and a great husband to me.