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Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Count on Family

encik husband BBMed me, that he's not feeling so well. so i pushed him to go to a clinic for a check-up, instead of buying some medicine without the prescription of a doctor. bukan i tak percaya dengan pharmacist, but living far away from home and at places that you don't familiar with, jangan amik risiko la.

so off he went. too bad that it was not his lucky night, dia entered clinic khas untuk beauty. dah la tunggu lama almost 1 hour, and he had to paid almost RM300 untuk ubat. and that's too much! after a few discussion dengan kawan, he only paid for the consultation fee which was RM25.

so end up no ubat, wasting time, and unconcern friends.

maybe boys are not like girls. your brotherhood tak sama dengan sisterhood kitorang. we are there for each other. for example, kalau pergi makan, we always discuss and everyone must agreed to eat at one place, takde sorang nak ke sana, and sorang nak ke sini. and we always care for each other.

while encik husband spent most of the time waiting, his friends went out and left him, to have dinner. well, kalau i pun, akan trying to find a place to sit or at least for a drink sebab lama sangat. but i will ask my friend whether dia nak join makan or i tapaukan je since kawan i kena tunggu lama untuk jumpa doctor. tapi kawan dia tak, and just isi perut sendiri.

-__________- that is so selfish and so sad. but i tak salahkan kawan dia pun, it is just a simple courtesy.

and how can you be so pushy kalau kawan you is trying to see the doctor? you ingat nak jumpa doctor tak kisahlah klinik kerajaan or swasta, senang-senang je macam tu ke? kena tunggu, kena queue. tapi i tak salahkan kawan dia pun, it is just a simple common sense.

anyway, i thought encik husband went there by himself, driving his own car, but i was wrong. dia tumpang kawan dia. and the best part was, they all went for an entertainment that night instead of going home, kata kawan sakit kan? well again, i tak salahkan kawan dia, it is just a simple common sense.

so i BBMed encik husband, sebab masa on the phone, he was a bit stress, cakap dengan nada tinggi dengan i, and i pun ada rasa nak marah dia dengan cara dia cakap dengan i, but thinking that he was not in his good health, i buat bodoh jela,

" sayang...are u okay there??"

"i'm okay...sayang ada...=)"

ah, mengader giler. dia a lil bit stressed out sebab salah klinik, tunggu lama, kawan pushy, no dinner for him, and instead of going home, kena layan kawan-kawan dia nak berjimba. but again itulah, bila kita minoriti following the majority, jadi macam ni la. so kena banyak bersabar je la kan.

" i wish you are here sayang...you will sooth me, you will treat me good....i miss you..."

kata dia. buat i rasa sedih sebab i tak mampu nak buat apa-apa kat dia except for calming words. so i said,

" tak semua orang sama sayang. kita je terlebih concern dengan orang. people will never care about us.."

"yes la bb. i pun terfikir macam tu. selalu pun jadi macam tu, kan?"

i faham maksud dia. contohnya, we let the car pass us through (potong queue), we let people in before we left out the door. etc etc. which we actually don't mind doing good things to other people. i said to him,

" sebab family kita ajar yang baik-baik. buat baik dengan orang walaupun orang buat jahat kat kita. i hope anak-anak kita macam kita jugak sayang, kan?"

"e'erm...we shared the same values, same thoughts, and same beliefs..."

"and that makes me love you even more syg...."

tapi itulah. akhirnya i tau, bila kita susah only orang yang sayang kita and family kita SAHAJA yang akan ada dengan kita, especially masa susah. dan isteri dan suami yang baik, akan sentiasa sama-sama menempuh dugaan. bukan i nak cakap kawan tak bagus, ada orang yang lucky enough, kawan lagi baik dari family, tapi sikit jela, tak ramai.

dari dulu sampai sekarang, memang prinsip itu yang i pegang. biar orang buatajahat dengan kita, tapi kita buat baik je dengan orang tu. Tuhan Maha Adil, biar Dia yang jalankan tugas dia,

and as a friend, tak salah kalai kita cuba memahami situasi yang berlaku. kita mungkin tak comfortable and tak suka demham situasi tu. tapi cuba letakkan diri kita kat tempat dia, maybe kita akan rasa yang sama?






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